Heat the ghee and add mustard seeds and cumin
When the mustard seeds pop and the cumin seeds sizzle, add the onions
Fry until the onions turn soft and then add garlic and red chillies
When the garlic turns a light brown and the onions start to brown, add curry leaves and hing
Fry for another minute or so or until the onions turn a golden brown
Now add the tomatoes, salt, and sugar (if using)
Cook until the tomatoes turn soft (around 4-5 minutes) and add to the cooked dal
Mix well and add lime juice. Test for salt levels and add more as needed
Serve hot with rice and any curry