Peel and grate the mangoes. Set aside
Heat the oil in a kadai or non-stick pan
Add the mustard seeds and fenugreek seeds, keeping heat low
When the mustard seeds pop, add the red chilli powder and turmeric
Give it a brisk stir and fry for 10 seconds, taking care not to burn the chilli powder. Keeping the flame low is important at this stage
Add the grated mangoes and mix everything well
Add salt and cook on medium-low flame until the mangoes let out water and soften
Add brown sugar or jaggery, if using
Continue cooking, stirring occasionally, until the oil separates from the thokku
Test to see there's enough salt and add more if needed
Remove from heat and cool completely
Store in a dry glass jar in the refrigerator for up to two weeks. Take care to use a dry spoon while